Thursday, May 6, 2010

Godly Gals ~ Marsha Harwood


The Second Mile
By: Marsha Harwood

In the mid 1990’s, God called my husband Mike and I to leave our comfortable life in suburban Atlanta, GA and move to the poorest county in the state of NC.  We both love the mountains and had grown to love the Cherokees and the people of Appalachia we’d met and been ministering to over the years, so we were thrilled.

The Lord called me to minister to hurting and sometimes abused women and children, at risk teen girls and pregnant teens. My days are filled with teaching school and mentoring the girls at our ministry house the first part of the day and counseling in the afternoons. I’m just an ordinary woman. There’s no long line of degrees behind my name, but the Lord chose me for this ministry because I understand what it’s like to be hurting and abused since I was raised in a family with an abusive father. 

When the Lord called us to this little corner of His world, we knew that there would be times we would need to walk the extra mile with hurting people in the community. The people don’t want to know how much we know, they just want to know how much we care.

Isn't that what the Lord has called all of us to, not just those in vocational ministry? We're to cheer on the weary, bandage their wounds, be their stretcher bearer if need be, whatever it takes.  Sometimes we need to stand guard over them, holding their hand and pray silently for them.  He wants us to continue administering the healing oil of His mercy so the wounded become whole, grow in righteousness and in turn walk the second mile with someone else.

What does the Lord say to us about going the extra mile with those who are weary? 


During a particularly busy time of walking the extra mile with multiple women at the same time, I told Him I didn’t know if I could continue. As I poured out my heart to Him and read Scripture, He chose to speak to my soul in paraphrase. Here is what I learned that evening.

"And whoever shall force you to go one mile, go with him two. (Matthew 5:41)
You are never so weary that you cannot go the second mile,
never so humble, that you cannot bend lower;
never so bereft that you have nothing left to give.

I give you abundant life,
and that means more and more - unending!
True, overcoming faith does not scrape the edges of the bowl,
does not grapple, beg or cajole for favors.
Faith does not scramble for bites of life, nor hide from earthly blows.
The child of God has strength for one more mile.
The first one was for man,
the second one is for Me."
Inspired by: Hebrews 12:3,12,13

Look around you...who is walking alone? Go and walk with them.

A little bit about Marsha:
Marsha Harwood lives deep in the woods of western North Carolina with the love of her life, Mike, their dog, Lucky and an occasional bear that comes by to visit. Married for 36 years, they are blessed with 3 adult children and 6 grandchildren.

Marsha and her husband started Snowbird TEAM Ministries in the late 1990’s to reach the Cherokee Indians and the poor of Appalachia for Christ.  Her ministry is with at risk teen girls, pregnant teens and counseling women and children who have been abused. Growing up as a battered child, she understands the shame and fear that fills the hearts of abused women and children. 

She can be found daily writing at her blog, Marsha’s Musings and on Facebook and occasionally on Twitter.  She’s also the Marriage Channel Editor for Exemplify Online and Magazine.
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Marsha, what a blessing you are to so many! Thank you for sharing your heart and your words with us today! I loved it and will be keeping my eyes open all week for that opportunity to go the Second Mile!

Ladies, have you been inspired, blessed or encouraged by the women in the Godly Gals series over the last eight months?

I know I have!  I'm always on the look out for ways to share "Real Women, Real Life, Real Faith" in action and if you've ever considered writing for this series I'd like to ask you to pray about it once more.  I'm taking submissions right now for August, September, and October...yep...that far out, which is incredible!

But I don't want you to miss out on it either.  You don't have to be an author, speaker, Bible study teacher, Pastor's Wife, Pastor, whatever...you just have to be a woman who is "Taking her everyday, ordinary life and placing it as an offering to Him", that's it!

Email me at melsworldministry {at} gmail {dot} com for a copy of the Submission Guidelines...you never know, this could be the beginning of something amazing!

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Monday, May 3, 2010

Speaking & Sun Burns

Where to begin, where to begin...

There's been so many awesome (and also crazy) things going on lately that I wanted to take a minute to just catch up with ya a bit!

First of all...I am so glad you are here!

You have no idea how much it blesses me to be friends with you!  You continue to inspire, bless, challenge, and encourage me...so thanks!

This past weekend I spoke at a Mother's Day Brunch at a church here in the Ft. Lauderdale area, Sawgrass Community Church.  It was a beautiful morning filled with love, laughter, and lots of food...that's the beauty of the "brunch", right?

Unfortunately I didn't really get to enjoy the bounty of yummies displayed because my stomach gets all full of butterflies before I speak (not nerves, just excitement).  Four or five of my dear friends came with me to listen, help me with my mic, and make sure I didn't have lipstick all over my teeth...ha! That's what good friends will do, right?

We did, however, have a fantastic time studying the truth, the depth, and the richness of 1 John 3:18.  We talked about how to be women of action and how we could use that verse to help us to "Spring Into Action".  It was an incredible morning and I loved every minute with those beautiful ladies.

During the day my oldest went to a beach party full of 16 year olds running around and having a great time.  There are quite a few benefits to living in South Florida and our beaches are by far one of them.  He was there for almost six hours.  I was speaking and enjoying my time with the ladies at Sawgrass Community Church so I didn't help him prepare a bag for the day but ran through a list of items over and over and over with him before I walked out the door.
Y'all know where this is going, right?

Don't ya know that apparently my son didn't pack a hat or sunblock over 30...which, for my very light Irish boy is not a good thing.  Needless to say, when he came home he already looked like a Rock Lobster...no kidding, he was glowing!

He showered then went to youth group and so we thought, ok, he's going be hurting for a few days but no big deal...what we weren't prepared for was...

That he wouldn't be able to sleep and that he would wake up the next morning covered in blisters!

Blisters!

Not just the little bitty ones either!

Nope, they pretty much look like bubble wrap size blisters.  All over his face and shoulders!

Needless to say he didn't sleep hardly at all (which means neither did mom and dad), he was in a horrible amount of pain, and spent the morning with the dry heaves.

Thankfully we had medicine for the nausea and started immediately pushing the fluids in him.  He was dehydrated, swollen, sick to his stomach and if it is possible I think the blisters were getting bigger.

I ended up staying home from church with him and throughout the course of the day yesterday the blisters got worse and we finally just said that we need to take him to the Emergency Room.

While in the ER we had several nurses and doctors who just "happened" to stop by our room.  They heard about this kid with the horrible sun burn and wanted to come see for themselves...it's ok, you can laugh, we did.

After only an hour and a half (our shortest ER visit ever, yay!!!) we walked out with a better understanding of what we were dealing with and how to help...He has 2nd degree burns on his face and shoulders, he's on pain meds and a special cream to help with the blisters.  

Apparently we can't just ever have a "simple" sickness or whatever in our house...so we continue to endure these crazy adventures...lol!

So, here we are, two days ago I was enjoying the sweet fellowship of a Mother's Day Brunch, and today I'm playing nurse/doctor to a 16 yr old who just now was able to fall asleep.

So now, here's my Public Service Announcement!!!

** Reapply, Reapply, Reapply!!!  Sunscreen needs to be put on again and again, especially if you are going to be in the sun for any period of time.  Wear hats to protect your face (if he had worn a hat his face wouldn't be as bad right now) and put a cover up or shirt on after awhile to protect your shoulders/chest!  

This mama will now get back to taking care of the patient!

Have a great day!


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Saturday, May 1, 2010

Book Review ~ 360 Degree Life


I'm such a big fan of books that you can sink your teeth in and walk away with practical tips on making a change.  I love when it is laid out simply, is easy to read and doesn't talk way above your head...so you can focus on the application instead of trying to figure out what it all means!

When I was contacted by Waterbrook Press to see if I would like to do a review of this book it definitely caught my eye and knew that it would be something that I would like to read even for myself.

It is written in a way that you could start with whatever chapter interested you and work through it from beginning to end or chapter by chapter.  I chose to read it slower so that I could take a chapter at a time and really chew on it a bit and start to apply it piece by piece.

Here's a little bit from the back of the book;

What if you had a second chance to chart your life?
What if you only had a few days to live?
Would you love?
Would you laugh?
Would you give?
Would you live differently than you do right now?
~ Billy Joe Daughtery

If possible, would you do a makeover on parts of your life? Most of us would gladly say "Yes!" to a fresh start, and that's exactly what God offers.

So many people live empty and frustrating lives, which is tragic because God desires a full, productive, and satisfying life for His children.  360 degree Life explores how ordinary people, regardless of their challenges, can experience life-altering change through simple faith.  Billy Joe Daughtery weaves material from the Bible, his own experience, and riveting interviews with contemporary Christians to reveal not just how you can survive struggles, but how you can rise above them.

That's the fulfilling result of a 360-degree life.

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